Friday, October 16, 2009

More on Shifting Perspectives

October 16, 2009


MORE ON SHIFTING PERSPECTIVES


In our last post, we were discussing the importance for intimate partners to be able to shift their perspectives when dealing with each other. We also remind you that ‘fully engaging in a significant couple’s relationship is the hardest task our human spirit desires….’


Why do it?


We realize the effort involved in making an intimate relationship work is vast. We believe that it requires an inner effort to shift from focusing on the problems to focusing on tapping healing love. Have you ever wondered, what would happen in our world if we all knew how to be intimate and embrace healing love?


Do you think there might be more:


  • Peace?

  • Joy?

  • Kindness?

  • Compassion?

  • Generosity?

  • Trust?

  • Prosperity?

  • Ethical Behavior?

We certainly believe this would be true. Here are some simple steps to help this begin to happen!


  • Learn how to see and listen to yourselves and each other from both-and perspectives!

  • Envision this kind of world for our children!

  • Join the other couples in the world who are tapping into healing love co-creating an exponentially magnetically strong force!

We deeply believe that when couples can learn how to shift their perspectives and hold multiple realities of the both-and rather than either-or and choose healing love, we can overcome adversities and transform the world.

Please join us in feeling and imagining this now. New seeds are being planted that are blooming into a radiant global forest of healing love.

In your relationships, please take the time to learn about each other’s perspectives. Practice the skill of holding both perspectives yours and the other. What new discovery are you having? How are you renewing and re-integrating your new discovery of yourselves together?

Thank you for being part of this healing vision and joining us on the journey of healing love. We appreciate you all!

We would love to hear about how you shift your perspective in the midst of conflict. Or how this post helped you shift some perspectives you have on your relationship. Please let us know by commenting below.


With Love and Gratitude,

Lalei and Phil
Join us at
www.phillalei.com to discover pathways of nurturing support and guidance to help you move upon your own journey of healing love.

No comments:

Post a Comment